2020-08-12T00:00:26

We Need Some Time Apart

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[Episode 261] Life in close quarters can be full on when you're carting your life around on a boat together, so we're spending a bit of time apart as we head back westwards along southern Portugal.

We want to take the varnish off and speak our mind about some issues that we think are important, and give you guys a sense of some aspects of our lives away from the camera.

Philosophize This! Podcast By Stephen West
https://bit.ly/Philosophize-This

Happiness Hypothesis Jonathan Haidght
https://www.happinesshypothesis.com/

Psychology Podcast - Scott Barry Kaufman
https://scottbarrykaufman.com/podcast/

Happiness Lab
https://www.happinesslab.fm/

Song Credits:
00:00 Hollow Coves - Heatwave - https://open.spotify.com/artist/7IAFAOtc9kTYNTizhLSWM6?si=Qy2VBj1MT2exbHD77vjECQ
02:13 Good Lee & Andrew Rothschild - 24 - https://www.facebook.com/AndrewRothschilds/
05:58 Honey Hounds - Easy Like The Breeze - https://open.spotify.com/artist/2gBYe3dJe0NroE6tej4XnP
09:02 Brother Mane - Epiphany - https://open.spotify.com/artist/2vC1DrTfUraHejWRM6e9Bm?si=CCzX4xs6SH6tHFKH5PoPHQ
14:17 Bill Beaumont - For The Birds Outside My Window - https://billbeaumont.bandcamp.com
17:19 Lachlan Ross - City Lights - https://Lachlanrossvisuals.com

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Produced by Elayna & Riley
Edited by Andrew Dickerson

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Marko Stamenkovic

Stay strong brother

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Psychic Nutrition

Love this and you guys 💕

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John Sibert

Laurie’s Happiness project is great, however most of well being psychology tiptoes around the core, which is ultimately our wellbeing is tied by what we love and how we are loved -- “homo adornas” - what do you love and how have you been loved? The Attachment theory school of psychology devels into this, however for deep dive that isn’t academic - check out Anthony DeMello’s (Indian psychologist / Christian Mystic) book Awarneess and his cheesy 1970’s YouTube videos. In peace.

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JC Baily

Your holding Lenny in the dingy showed how much he loves you and missed you so please never forget that he needs both a Mom and a Dad to grow strong in the world he is facing...I wish you all only the best!

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Rick Rothstein

Relationships require work.. everyday.. Being a parent is the hardest and most rewarding job out there.. Lenny is happy and healthy.. you two are killing it.. Cheers

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freebird1ification

together 24-7 never works out then throw in a little person and disaster

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Jeroen Witteveen

I was shocked that the title and the intro turned out not to be a joke. I saw Elayna with more sadness than Riley. Riley, your conclusion is right: friendship contributes more to happiness than soms other things. Most of all, focus on Elayna, the rest comes later.

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MrSeanh01

You need a granny to help out with the little one

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John Cataroche

ive been watching every episode with incredible envy im devistated to see you have to take time out my wife and i have both lost lost our jobs cant pay the rent going to loose our home our family is
falling apart dont know what the 0utcome will be stop reading those negative books and get on with what really matters a great family you have the most amazing life good luck in the future Yorkshire John.

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Ernest Jackson

I'm very sorry for being rude but Riley you're spoiled. You have so many blessings how can you see through them all. You must be trying really hard to find a bump in your path. Thank Yahweh for all you have, including the bumps which you can learn from. Stay healthy and understand who it is that gives your life purpose.

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Janet Matos

If you need time apart ×÷[ go to the sofa 🛋... I'm going to give you some advice men.. that's how 🤔 a DIVORCE START... AND WEN A WOMAN FEELS 😥 AND LONELY!! THEY WILL BE A LINE OF GOOD MEN TRAINING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF HER PAIN... IF YOU WHERE MY SON I WILL HIT YOU IN THE HEAD.. APOLOGY AND YOUR FAMILY 👪 COMES 1ST THAN ANY BAOT OR AUDIENCE...

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Michael Roberg

It was really nice just seeing a bit of honesty in internet media, well done

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joe ROSCILLO

We've been married 25 yrs. worked at the same place, different shifts!! Now retired together, always with each other!! Can certainly understand a need for SPACE!! Fortunately in a two story home, we can find a bit of "ME" Time at our own interests!! Definitely understand how it must be, on a boat, raising a child, where you can't even make a short run to the store or go out for some leisure photos (landscape)!! Bottom line, all relationships take work and need a certain amount of space!! Plan for those times, things will be better!! OMG!! See you've both lost your knack, for making a classy meal!! Thing will get better, Your only normal!!

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Karsten Boye Nielsen

Respect

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Jim Ramm

I commend you for being so open with your situation. That can't be easy sharing it with so many 'strangers'! Another thing that is key to maintaining mental health and is almost always overlooked is minerals! Every mental health issue is a result of a mineral deficiency. I've had people go from suicidal to completely normal in less than 30 days simply by getting them on a solid supplementation program. I won't post my website without your permission, but if you'd like to learn more feel free to contact me and I'd be happy to provide you with lots of information! Being on a boat for days on end at times can only serve to complicate matters so being open with one another and having your own 'quiet place' (aka sail locker, etc) where you can go to 'chill out' is a must, I'm sure! Love you guys and I'll keep you in my prayers!

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Paul Dutot

Riley....Just to let you know you are giving more than you know. I enjoy, so much, watching your family living your dreams and watching Lenny grow!

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Jim Douglas

Remember one important thing ! Your child is getting an education unheard of by 90% of children. Isn't he close to the dreaded, <Terrible Twos> OMG. He might arrive there sooner than most because of his advanced state of mind and if you think he will do better on land ????? think again folks !! LOL

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John Clausen

Fantastic episode folks well done 👍

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Jess O'Connor

❤️

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Johan D L

Hi guys
Remember not matter what you go through as long as you’re love don’t change fir each other. My wife Linda and I always say we may not like one another at times by our love will never change for each other.
Kind regards and God bless
Johan
TGBTG

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M Brie

Thank you for posting this. I’m grateful that you’re so open with your lives and share your true experiences. It helps me with my mental health seeing you acknowledge that life is messier than what we see from the outside. Wishing you all the best ❤️

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Daniel Hogan

Liked and dinged! Thanks for sharing Riley. Men's Mental Mental is super important and becoming more widely spoken about. It's good to hear Good men sharing "their stuff". Honesty is also important for happiness. Stay well.

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Janet Matos

A mother 👩 ❤ gets stressed 😫 out all the time with are kids, can you imagine 😳 me telling my kids I need some time apart ×÷[

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fernandez571

Take my advice, don’t have a second child, it only gets worse 🤣

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KQS Marine

About those books you read...
Below is also written a piece by a wise and well seasoned man.
Logical and supernatural knowledge of Perspectives are a key component to understand many opinions.

You have searched me, Lord,
and you know me.
You know when I sit and when I rise;
you perceive my thoughts from afar.
You discern my going out and my lying down;
you are familiar with all my ways.
Before a word is on my tongue
you, Lord, know it completely.
You hem me in behind and before,
and you lay your hand upon me.
Such knowledge is too wonderful for me,
too lofty for me to attain.
Where can I go from your Spirit?
Where can I flee from your presence?
If I go up to the heavens, you are there;
if I make my bed in the depths, you are there.
If I rise on the wings of the dawn,
if I settle on the far side of the sea,
even there your hand will guide me,
your right hand will hold me fast.
If I say, “Surely the darkness will hide me
and the light become night around me,”
even the darkness will not be dark to you;
the night will shine like the day,
for darkness is as light to you.
For you created my inmost being;
you knit me together in my mother’s womb.
I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made;
your works are wonderful,
I know that full well.
My frame was not hidden from you
when I was made in the secret place,
when I was woven together in the depths of the earth.
Your eyes saw my unformed body;
all the days ordained for me were written in your book
before one of them came to be.
How precious to me are your thoughts, God!
How vast is the sum of them!
Were I to count them,
they would outnumber the grains of sand—
when I awake, I am still with you.
If only you, God, would slay the wicked!
Away from me, you who are bloodthirsty!
They speak of you with evil intent;
your adversaries misuse your name.
Do I not hate those who hate you, Lord,
and abhor those who are in rebellion against you?
I have nothing but hatred for them;
I count them my enemies.
Search me, God, and know my heart;
test me and know my anxious thoughts.
See if there is any offensive way in me,
and lead me in the way everlasting.
psalm 139

best to you guys.

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Alexis A

This is normal. You will come out stronger on the other side. Take some time off from work and sailing, and don't give up on each other. Wish you the best. <3

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This Old Boat

Automatically the child goes with her... ? Don't get me started

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1000 subscribers with No Videos challenge. Help Me

For everyone who is watching this.
I pray for you God bless you and have a great day. Stay safe

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1000 subscribers with No Videos challenge. Help Me

For everyone who is watching this.
I pray for you God bless you and have a great day. Stay safe

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Colleen Dutton

Thanks for your openness. Prayers for you both!

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cupidsfc

I've been with you from the start , i hope this is not just to get more views .

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east coast republicans

I do not know where your from but when she says she needs space ITS OVER. Oh yeah WHY WOULD YOU SAIL WITH A KID WTF. You.canT live your life ON A BOAT DAMN. Oh, these people have no idea what their doing

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Brenda

We have been living on a Tartan 37 for 13 months. I am super protective of my time alone in the morning and beloved gets to be alone after I have gone to sleep. I started doing this when I had my babies. I got you 20 minutes before anyone else and used that time to meditate and watch the day before. It is a practice that keeps me balanced.

Love you both.

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Kristin Bienia

After all, only when we are happy with ourselves, we can show our best version in a relationship. Sometimes when things feel overburdening and when one argument just follows another because everyone is tired and has lost perspective, it is beneficial to claim some freedom and to withdraw for some time. Sometimes a little bit of distance can do more for your relationship then to continue discussing endlessly the same topics all over again.

Sometimes we also simply go through very personal development chapters and we need more attention and awareness for our inner world. Having someone around all the time and "functioning" can feel then too much because all we want is to "soul search" a little, go about the day in our own rhythm and just feel what there is to feel.

Eventually you'll meet again and be able to go for a new, fresh start with everyone having more clarity.

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evanbetter

please take care and put yourselves always at first place - the community will handle whatever you decide to do. take care. lots of love!

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john voss

You both need to grow up!

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Jasper Simpkin

Authenticity is a quality overlooked in this egotistical cultural dogma of a life we are all kicking in. Cheers for the slice you shared with us today. Carry on 👍❤

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Tim Neeves

Can u go through the technical stuff and what planning you have to go through when commencing an open sea voyage and what has to be done to the boat I would find that very interesting...Good Luck with everything...T

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Megan D'Alessandro

cue the armchair relationship counselors

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Henrik Sjödin

You guys are just awesome!❤️ Videos like these are so important.

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alex michniak

Good luck guys, you will be fine. Thank you for the advice too.

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udochi esowe

i appreciate your truth it was ovely to hear

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gilles chevrey

Give a chance to Your love and have a look at Guy Corneau’s book « lessons in love Transformation of Spirit through intimacy ». This book brought me light in my desparate search ouf understanding. Wish you all the best !

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James

I died when I saw the baby crying, then the door was opened, and he was happy, then he closes the door and cries again

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Vicky Krugman-Mendel

appreciate your honesty and being real!

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Kevin-Neil Klop

It is these raw honest insights into your lives, where you are real people, everything is not perfect, not all flowers are roses, and even roses have some thorns, that continues to show you as real people and not cardboard cut-outs. It's too easy to see all your videos and think what a perfect life you have. Thank you for sharing some of the negative parts, the rough parts, too. Thank you for being real people.

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Northeast 87

You guys are so real and down to earth. This is why I LOVE your channel!!. Lenny is getting so BIG holy crap! Lol. I've missed a few episodes but damn!, What are you feeding that kid?! Lmao!!. Hope all is well with the 3 of you!, You'll make it through the storm!, I have faith in you guys!!. Batten down the hatches, trim the sails and weather the storm!!. Love you guys! Be safe!.

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Nauticus Yachting

You will most certainly overcome this . It's just a cloud passing by. As fellow liveaboards we can't say its any different with us, we have watched many clouds come and go too. Enjoy your time alone, hugs to all three of you.

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BibleWomen777

John 14:6 - Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me.

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Lorraine Chamberlain

Excellent, thoughtful, insightful. No leaping to conclusions here...life's hard enough on land! You guys are more mature than people twice yr age. Good choices. Give yrselves a break, but also- give yrselves a HAND. 💖💕

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